American woman married to an Igbo man. How do I be a great wife to an Igbo man and love him right? I've been researching Nigeria, Igbo culture and language and Nigerian recipes. I'm teaching myself his language and trying the recipes I find online. I try to keep the house clean but honestly I'm not very neat by nature, so that's a struggle. I'm very adventerous sexually, but my hubby actually seems very shy to try new things and seems to prefer conservatism in the bedroom. He seems very happy with all my efforts, but I want to be sure I'm being a good wife. Any suggestions?