I love my girlfriend and she, undoubtedly loves me. But she sometimes demands gifts or money that I can’t provide instantly; yet she keeps up with me.

I’ve told her that I’m unable to carry all her responsibilities, but will always try my best for her. I thought she understood.

However, there’s one problem: Whenever I want to enter her after we’ve caressed and I’ve become high, she’ll ask me to promise to provide her with what’s difficult for me to provide quickly (like an expensive Android phone, money for business, etc).

Why would she do that when I’m very high sexually and desperate to enter? No matter how much I beg her, she’ll refuse to open her legs until I promise her. All these have drained my savings and income.

I know that it’s spiritually dangerous for men to promise what they can’t do when they’re on top of women, but I can’t always control myself whenever I set my eyes on her naked, sexy and tempting body.

If I delay her when she needs something, she’ll simply wait till when we’re to have sex, and she’ll then demand that I mention a date I’ll give her; otherwise, there wouldn’t be any real fun.

My woman wants me to promise her before I enter, should I agree?

What can I do? I’m helpless! - Contributed